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Scott Lipscomb's avatar

First off, thanks for writing this, as well as the other two posts you've made over the last 2 months or so on this topic. As a fellow Episcopal priest, it's an important one to me, and I think you raise crucial points. I especially agree that the heart of our crisis is really the failure of good theological formation. I can say that as both a priest, but also as a young person: I walked away from the mainline for most of my 20s almost entirely because no one at my (Methodist/Presbyterian) home church ever bothered to even try to explain things like the Trinity or Incarnation. These things matter, especially to younger people who actually want to get serious about their faith.

That said, two thoughts occurred to me as I read that I think might be germane to further reflection.

First: along with records of baptisms and confirmations, it'd be nice to see if we had a good record of receptions. At the last parish I served, we welcomed about 25 new members over the course of 4 years (at a small church, half of that time in COVID lockdown). Not amazing growth, but decent. The vast majority of those new members were already baptized and confirmed, normally from non-Episcopal traditions. I'm not saying that the numbers of receptions would make a meaningful dent in the downward trend overall (I don't think that's true) but it would be helpful to see, and it might at least blunt the sense of doom hanging over certain quarters of the church.

Which brings me to my second thought: I am often reminded of Jesus's warning that the way to life is narrow and steep while the way to destruction is broad and easy. I do wonder if we should disabuse ourselves of the idea that most people will actually want to join Christianity, once they actually know what it really entails (taking up crosses, etc.) I do think we may be measuring our current numbers against an aberration, a long period of history in which church membership and attendance was effectively mandatory or at least very socially difficult to ignore. We might actually be moving closer to the "natural" uptake of Christian discipleship (and consider that historians estimate only 17% of Americans attended church regularly ion 1776—this isn't an entirely new problem!)

Now, all that said, again, I'm not suggesting that you are wrong to be sounding the alarm, and I agree that we should be working to do better. But I do wonder if we need to calibrate our sense of exactly what that means.

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SlowlyReading's avatar

I like this vaguely relevant analogy*: If you are hit by a drunk driver and seriously injured, it is definitely not your fault. But recovery requires arduous effort, and and if you don't make that effort, no one else can do it for you.

Churches didn't cause the adverse conditions that they operate under, etc.

* As seen here: https://newrepublic.com/article/76403/what-hope

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